We accept or reject people for their romantic potential based upon an internal criteria that we carry around with us deep in our brains. We have categories where we place people of the opposite sex and then grade them accordingly.

Getting lucky. The whole notion of getting lucky sums up what little control most men have over the course of events when it comes to the game of seduction. Try some desperate gambit, roll the dice, and see if it works.

First I’d like to discuss the structure of the physical-psychological makeup of most men from which their success or lack thereof with women can often be traced.

There are many ways to approach the elimination of a personal deeply rooted fear thats been interfering with your life.

You know how those guys with all great looks have it pretty easy in life when it comes to dating with women But not having great looks can also be an advantage too

Jockeying for pecking order among males is something that goes on constantly in all species of animal on Earth. It takes place in every human culture too, probably dating back to the very beginnings of Time itself.

The appearance of wealth must be a priority. Certainly you don’t need to be “millionaire” wealthy – but you do need to project some kind of non-verbal evidence that you’ve done alright for yourself, or (even better) that you are still going places... either with your company, in the business world, the universe of arts and entertainment, etc

Don’t forget to stand tall and project a confident air. This seemingly insignificant attention to posture goes a long way towards making a subliminal positive impression on people, especially women.

The higher your perceived socio-economic status, your ranking “number” on that invisible but all pervasive Male Dominance Scale, the more interesting, sexy and desirable you will seem to women.

BloodSport? Are you telling me that trying to meet and seduce women really all that dire? Isn’t the grand game of wooing women supposed to be a light-hearted adventure taken on with playful humour and an air of restless good spirit?

What topics do they focus on? How are they presented? Does the delivery matter more than the actual content of what you say? And if it does, then what does the unspoken nature of that delivery say?

I'm 5'6", un athletic, and have a nasty lisp to my voice. Women find me unattractive and unacceptable as a potential mate. They laugh at guys like me...

Unfortunately, this trick only works if you happen to be a kitten, puppy or some other breed of cute furry animal (love and kisses only, no sex for Sparky...).

Conversely, men get a sense of a woman’s potential to bear healthy children by looking for signs of physical attractiveness, which are primarily signs of youthfulness and fertility... 70% hip-to-waist ratio, big eyes plus small chin (childlike face), smooth skin (youth), ample breasts (post-puberty), slim figure (more childlike indicators), etc.

Think you’re the only guy who locks up in the presence of a cute chick? The problem seems to be as much cultural as it is personal.

Just knowing this fact can put you light years ahead of all your competition, because many other guys have chosen to take themselves out of the game and stand on the sidelines and snivel that they never get laid.

One of the damndest principles in all of life is that wretched one which insists that the rich get richer while the poor simply get poorer.

Men typically don’t act this way around women rock stars because their status as successful performers is not impressive to men.

Many of the impulses and ‘prime directives’ for finding a suitable adult dating partner re hardwired deep within the primitive parts of the human brain.

The mistake that you’re probably making right now is being focused too much on what you’re saying (your content) while completely ignoring the critical messages that you need to be conveying with your attitude (your intent).

Just friends? Again? Aaaarrghhh! That's the most hated of all things to hear from any woman that you'd like to bang. When you finally get up the balls to show how you really feel about her she just wants to be your buddy.

But wait a minute, how could a woman not have some romantic feelings for a guy who only wants to love her, worship the ground she walks on, drink her bathwater and generally make her every wish come true?

If you’ve been red flagged as being far down the male status totem pole, then women will have little interest in you as a mate, and the more beautiful the female (high status for her) the more this is likely to be true.

Here are 4 examples of what I mean by the type of nice guys that women will keep as a friend, but show absolutely no sexual or dating interest in:

One of the best ways to elicit a positive response from any woman is to have a presentation about yourself that appears charismatic.

Once you practice this and start to become good at it, your personal courage in such situations will begin to go up steadily.

Say what? My blood?... are we hoping to score with Elvira Mistress of the Dark now or what? No, but get this: there's a curious aspect to the man-woman seduction and mating dance that plays itself out on a strictly biochemical level.

It appears that the female brain has built into it a primitive, deep-seated means of finding a mate who has a high chance of giving her strong, healthy babies...

Bottom line: There’s just no way to drain all the risk out of meeting women, no matter how good you ever become at it. There exist aspects of biology that are simply out of your control.