What topics do they focus on?  How are they presented?  Does the delivery matter more than the actual content of what you say?  And if it does, then what does the unspoken nature of that delivery say?

I wrestled with these question endlessly in my forsaken youth, as I suspect you might have too (and might still be doing).  One of the characteristics of us thoughtful, withdrawn (sexy) guys is that, besides being way too judgmental and hard on ourselves, we tend to think too much.  Intellectualizing and ruminating are thought addictions that give us a shield behind which to hide our true selves.  You’ll see that once I show you exactly how the mental, physical and gamesmanship aspects of seduction are developed and deployed, your powers of the mind can then be turned to the more productive task of applying these technologies for each individual woman that you encounter, instead of trying to invent the whole damn technology right on the spot!

That’s where paralysis comes in.  How can you be expected to suddenly invent a seduction routine when the opportunity sneaks up and presents itself to you when you’re least expecting it?  Who could possibly operate under that kind of pressure other than a professional actor who’s skilled in improvisational techniques? Hell, even if you’re in a bar or a nightclub and have the time to stand around and daydream as all the pretty women swirl around you, you still can’t think of what to say!  Your overly-critical mind just keeps rejecting one thing after another until you run out of ideas and go home frustrated again.

That’s because you understand intuitively that you just can’t say any old thing... you have to say the perfect thing or you’ll just get rejected and laughed at as a hopeless idiot.  And rejection must be avoided at all costs right?

So how do you avoid all this pain and agony?  Knowledge.  When you have a specific plan of action all worked out in your mind beforehand, which includes an idea of what exactly you should be saying in order to make the best impression possible (and thus diminish your likelihood of being rejected), your ability to take action skyrockets. That’s because you can approach the task with the confidence of someone who knows what they’re doing. Knowledge and training breeds confidence in any kind of human endeavour. Seducing women is no different than any other task in that respect. (And remember I’m all about avoiding rejection at all costs, so my training has to be extensive in order to cover all or most eventualities).