Don’t forget to stand tall and project a confident air.  This seemingly insignificant attention to posture goes a long way towards making a subliminal positive impression on people, especially women.  Again it all goes back to your attitude -- you stand proud and tall because you’re one of Life’s winners... you conquer all before you!  Be careful here... this is the sort of message that must be communicated to women non-verbally, you don’t dare come right out and say something like “I’m one of life’s big winners, baby...” in even a semi-joking fashion or you will be pegged an instant asshole.  Try not to diminish with put-downs or jokes any of these important aspects of your character and attitude that I’m outlining here.  This is all profound stuff to women... this dance of seduction.  One of the big secrets of guys who are successful with women is that they have total respect for her view of its significance.  If you act like the idea of flirting, seduction and romance is all a bunch of horseshit, you can expect to be limited to making it strictly with 3's and below... since they’ll take anything they can get.  Even a lame-brain like you.

Strike the delicate balance between being cool and coming on too strong.  If you’re going to be seeing her on a regular basis (at work, as a waitress in a restaurant you frequent, etc.) then your best move is to advance the seduction just a little bit at a time.  We’ll talk about the actual techniques later, but you should understand that the delivery is just as important. Be playful and flirtatious, don’t take things too seriously, stay light and amusing, always make them laugh. Important: keep your humour on the clever side, never sarcastic or as an attempt to take a subtle shot at someone (women are very sensitive to this), and don’t go overboard with the funny stuff or you’ll come off as a clownish boy instead of a seductive man. Men are humorous -- boys are foolish jokers who don’t know when to quit.  It’s painfully obvious when you’re so happy to have someone finally cracking up at your stupid jokes that you don’t know when to slide off the stage.  You’re confident that your clever quips are funny, so you don’t need to spray a lot of them around the room.  Just relax and stay focused on the process of flirting, don’t get all wrapped up in her reaction or fretting about if you’re putting through a positive impression of yourself or not.  If you stay cool and reserved, you are.

If it’s appropriate, take a little risk. I know the whole thing about risking your ego is the central challenge to your being able to do anything effective with women, but it’s important for you to understand that the act of risking helps to bootstrap your confidence and projects a very high status image.  What’s the big deal about risk-taking anyway?  Because if you’re a “winner” at the game of Life, then you expect to continue winning at whatever you try to do.  Therefore, what looks scary to a “loser” is not really a risk, for you. The easy ability to accept a risk is an activity only engaged in by High Status Males. This expectation is the signal... get it? Trust me, she does.  It immediately tags you as being very intriguing to women.  You want the label of the “risk-taker” at any cost, so seek it wherever you can.

To wrap this up, just keep in mind that perception is reality when it comes to

seduction... it doesn’t matter if you aren’t some “Thadius Rich Boy” in real life -- you

only have to approximate his attitude in order to do amazingly well with women.  They

understand that it’s all just a game and are willing to suspend disbelief in order to make

the whole thing work, the same way that you accept the utterly fantastic premise of a way-out science fiction movie like Alien and simply enjoy it for what it is... great entertainment.  It doesn’t matter that you’re a man of modest means or if your belly sticks out a little once you slip out of your stylish Euro shirt... by then the killer first impressions will have been made and trust me, it lasts.  Heck, she’s not perfect either... you’ll both begin to discover each other’s warts once you become more intimate, but by then the seduction will have matured beyond the flirting dance and moved onto something else entirely.