The higher your perceived socio-economic status, your ranking “number” on that invisible but all pervasive Male Dominance Scale, the more interesting, sexy and desirable you will seem to women. It’s just that simple. In terms of getting your foot in the door of seduction, that’s really all there is to it.
Remember to always look your best when you’re out and about, as the opportunities to meet women always seem to occur when you least expect it. You can dress casual but try to show some style. Lose the sweat pants and the reversed baseball cap, especially if you’re over 30 (you’re just making an ass of yourself). Not being afraid to act appropriate for one’s age is a clear sign of high male status. A man who’s going up the socio-economic ladder finds the journey exhilarating and can’t wait to get there! He embraces and revels in the changes brought about by the march of years... realizing that men can get sexier as they get older due to the accumulation of experience, expertise, power and money. Status typically rises with age. If you’ve got the world by the tail, why bother to cling to the past? So don’t be afraid to give yourself the advantage of reveling in your current level of maturity. Just don’t shuffle around looking like a sullen, vanquished bum. Be aware of the visual you project -- and the absolute power that an “I’ve-got-the-world-by-the-balls” image conveys.
Dominant males have characteristics which are easily identifiable to women everywhere... they are confident first and foremost, have a likable quality about them, listen well and focus on the woman totally and completely while she’s talking. The ability to pay attention to others without fretting or seeming self-conscious demonstrates that you have you shit together. You are not imprisoned by anxieties due to the fact that your life situation is out of control, or that you’re desperate for someone to listen to your problems. Other qualities flow from your magnanimous nature... integrity, strength of character, genuineness and compassion. All this adds up to a sexy package. Give the guy a 7 or an 8!
The weak (dominated) male, by contrast, has a personality that has been forged from the opposite end of the human spectrum. It is marked by bitterness and rampant insecurities, jealousy, pettiness, and an inability to accept even the slightest criticism. Flying off into hair-triggered rages released by pent-up anger from being pushed around all his life, sarcasm and stupidity are the hallmarks of his nature. The whupped and wussie side of him emerges with a despondent, groveling edge... constantly apologizing for himself and his male sex drives.
He makes poor eye contact (a sign of submission), fawns over any woman who shows even the slightest interest in him (demonstrating how rare such interest is), talks about himself and his own problems and reveals way too much about himself in casual conversation ...signaling how desperate he is for someone to listen to his lonely self. He’s usually very boring too. This is not a guy with all his ducks in a row and it shows. His low score on the Male Dominant Scale assures that he’s doomed to flounder around with unattractive women. This notion doesn’t suit his highly self-delusional ego however, tending to increase his hostility even further. Unsexy is the final word on this chump... a 2.5 or less.
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