Once you practice this and start to become good at it, your personal courage in such situations will begin to go up steadily.  That’s because once you know you have the power to elicit a positive response from someone your fear of being rejected by them diminishes to nothing.  Remember that the rejection you fear so much is partly a reflection of your own miserable character and attitude.  Change this and your “rejectability” changes with it.  And anything that we can do to reduce your fear of rejection is a major step forward, right?

It’s easy to have courage when you have little or no fear.  Moreover, your brand of courage will be classy because it’s based on your own personal style of charisma that makes people feel good about themselves. I once read in a magazine somewhere that if you can be flattering, funny and fearless most any woman can be yours, (and this article was written by a woman). Two out of these three are possible simply by making a commitment to being charismatic in your approach towards women, and by taking a relaxed, lighthearted approach to things the third one is easily in reach as well. It’s as easy as having the right tone of voice, remembering to stay on message, and keeping in mind the goal of having her associate good feelings with being around you. You’re the honey, and she’s the bee. You’re too cool to try, you attract.

Never forget how magnificently you score points by demonstrating courage to women... this more than anything else instantly ranks you way up high on the Male Dominance Scale, and it does so as a first impression. That’s why all those dummies that couldn’t hold a candle to your brilliance get the girls while you get to go home and pound your meat... because the one thing they do have is the courage to open their mouths and say something. What they actually say can often be lame or even juvenile, but once again it’s the non-verbal communication of their status by way of their attitude that’s given more weight than the actual words they say anyway. It gets the little wheels of lust turning in the woman’s subconscious mind. That keeps the jerk in the dating and mating category and makes sure that he stays out of the despised “just-friends zone”. So, while you’re agonizing over just the perfect thing to say, jerk-o’s already said it with his willingness to take a social risk and is now waltzing away with your woman.

Don’t worry, you’ll be in this fight soon enough giving jerk-o a run for his money.