We are fairly new to this site. I have noticed that lots of people are demanding face pics and either have no face pics of their own up or no pics at all. I am aware that before meeting it would be nice to see a face pic - probably requested by me too - but do not intend to demand that they be posted on site or respond to same. I have seen people put up face pics only to remove them within a day or two, or modify them so the face isn't showing. When I asked one member why she had done this it was because another member had recognized her and publicly discussed her membership on this site with others. How offensive! Respect for privacy should be paramount here - not adolescent gossipping behaviors! Many members are professionals, have public or government careers, are prominent in their respective communities, or just wish to maintain their privacy. It is inappropriate and the worst kind rude behavior to share someone else's personal information.Any who do so should be ashamed and should be outed by handle so that we will all know that they are not trustworthy. My sexuality is between me and the people with whom I get naked - not someone who

1. is not what I/we are looking for in a partner

2. just happens to know me or my spouse and is also a member of this site

3. thinks it acceptable to share my personal information with others

4. has no care for any personal, professional, or social damage they may cause by doing so. There is my rant for today. Thanks for reading.