My wife and I have been together for almost five years and in that time I thought that we've had great sex, but come to find out she's been lying to me to protect my feeings.

When we make love there is a lot of foreplay, because she doesn't like it when I go down on her or try and warm her up with a vibrator. I've tried everything to make sure that she enjoys as much as I do and nothing has worked. She doesn't like to be Tied up and Blinfolded. Doesn't like to be surprised. I've tried everything from romantic sex to wham-bam-thank-you-mamam. And still nothing. Theonly time that she has an orgaisam is when we haven't had sex in two or more weeks and thats rare.

What can I do to satisfy my woman? I love her and I want her to enjoy our lovemaking if it's possible. I'm willing to try almost anything (that is if she's into it).